Domestic abuse and sexual violence

There are different kinds of domestic abuse, but it is always about power and control.

Domestic abuse can be:

  • physical
  • emotional
  • coercive and controlling behaviour
  • sexual
  • financial

Remember you are not alone. There are people who want to help you.

A scared young girl facing the wall with her head down and clutching her teddy.

Tell the police

To report a crime to the police:

  • Phone 999 if you are in danger.
  • Phone 101 if it is not an emergency.

You can also:

In danger, need the police, but can't speak?

  1. Dial 999.
  2. Listen to the questions from the 999 operator.
  3. Respond by coughing or tapping the handset if you can.
  4. If prompted, press 55.

Pressing 55 lets the 999 call handler know it's a genuine emergency.

They will put you through to the police.

Domestic abuse support services in East Sussex

Advance deliver free, confidential, and non-judgmental support to anyone over the age of 16 who is experiencing domestic abuse in East Sussex, with ongoing advocacy available where it is needed to support you to feel safer. 

They are available Monday - Friday 9am - 5pm

Phone: 0330 0559278

Email: EastSussexDA@advancecharity.org.uk

Website: East Sussex Domestic Abuse Service - Advance Charity

You can also find support services in your area on the Safe Space Sussex website.

Sexual violence support services in East Sussex

Survivors Network provide the specialist rape and sexual violence abuse service for Sussex. You can self refer by completing the referral form on their website, calling 01273 203 380, or emailing info@survivorsnetwork.org.uk .

You can refer yourself, or a trusted third party (such as a friend, partner, or family member) can refer on your behalf, as long as they clearly state that they have your consent. If consent is not clearly stated, Survivors Network won’t be able to progress the referral.

Hide your online activity

Learn how to access information without leaving a ‘history’.

Cover your tracks online | Women’s Aid 

If you are referred to MARAC

A multi-agency risk assessment conference (MARAC) is a meeting of professionals who will discuss your case and make an action plan to support you.

If an agency refers you to a MARAC, a domestic abuse caseworker will offer you support. Caseworkers are from Change Grow Live.

Find out if your partner has a history of abuse

The Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme, or Clare’s Law, can help you decide whether it’s safe for you to continue your relationship. You can ask the police for information if you're worried that:

  • your current or ex-partner has a history of abuse
  • a friend or relative might be at risk from a current or ex-partner

Request information under Clare's Law | Sussex Police

More about the scheme Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme factsheet | GOV.UK



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